Our cleft story

Let your smile change the world, never let the world change your smile. It’s Cleft Lip & Palate Awareness Week, and these photos tell the story of Stanley’s first op, at 3 months old. His first, and second, smile.

I miss that first cheeky smile, the first smile that we fell in love with, a smile I will never forget, a smile that we didn’t want to let go, and a smile that I hope he is proud of as he grows older. Our Cleft Nurse always told us to take photos, take plenty of photos, and we certainly did! Our house is surrounded with reminders of this first cheeky smile. The emotions you go through regarding the change in appearance is immense. It was something that people tried to prepare us for, but something that we could never imagine until the little man arrived.

Although we knew it was the right thing to do, there was a part of us that didn’t want him to have that op… we didn’t want him to change. We treasured every cheeky smile of those first three months, and handing him over to his surgeon, Jonathan, was the hardest thing I have ever had to do.

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Stanley’s smile was in his hands, and those hours that we waited, hours of pacing up and down the hospital corridors, they felt like a lifetime. But Jonathan is an incredible surgeon, and an amazing guy – Stanley couldn’t have been in better hands. We are super lucky to have had a second cheeky smile to fall in love with all over again.